Tell Me What is Love

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okay, I knew my blog had spiders here and there but here I am. After one whole year I haven't post anything (How bad I was) finally I could make one *dance dance*. For your Information, I already 18 years old and my last post when I was 16. This year is my last year in Senior high school. New friends, experience, and more.  My sister, Novita had married a year ago and she is pregnant now, Mbak Billa had a boyfriend, and I... You know I have a boyfriend too, but we're in a distance relationship because he's still in the future.hehehe

So tell me what is love is like my point of you about love. Honestly, it's so hard to describe 'Love' when I haven't even felt it yet. In this case I discuss about Love to your boy/girlfriend not your family. When I see my friends who deeply in love, I envy them, even when they crying, I still envy them. They do anything for their love, even the impossible one. They will embarrass themselves and put anyone else after him/her. When you start to like someone, you want everybody know, World have to know that I fall in love, update anything so he/she can read such as "OMG, his smile. I'm gonna die", "can you see me? I'm right here", "he said Hi, he said Hi, he said Hi", "He talked to me, my face was as red as tomato, OMG" and start to download new songs that reflect your heart, use the lyrics for your next post. "Cause All of me, love all of you", "could it be love, could it be something that I never had?", "I'm officially missing you"

The question is.... did she/he have a boy/girlfriend or someone she/he like?

First, let's say your babe is single

Oh my god, doctor said that you had kepo syndrome (knowing every particular object). you search her/his ex, how is he/she? and after you see the X you'll say "his ex is ugly, I'm prettier" or "she's not pretty.....*a moment latter* well, She's prettier than me tho', but who cares! love is blind anyway.... *a moment moment latter* she's really pretty *cry hard* I don't have chance" usually girls do that (I'm a girl too). After you do some research, you start to be closer to your love. send text message, waiting patiently, nah this is where the problem show up. you start "The Speculation", why she/he doesn't reply? what takes her/him so long? did she/he already have a date? is she/he busy and much much more. Let's say you had been closer and he haven't ask you to be his girlfriend (Boys usually asks first) Girls, don't, DON'T trust any of their reason, if he really loves you, he'll ask you to be his girlfriend and this is where PHP (giving a fake hope) syndrome was found, well PHP syndrome usually attached both boys and girls. She/He already called you Babe, Honey, Sugar, Flour, Egg, Mixer or anything but you still haven't been her/his date? one day she/he makes you happy and another day they make you cry. And what Should you do?

Lesson number 1: Be Patient, always.

Second, let's say you already be his/her girl/boyfriend

You are the happiest human on Earth. Congratulation!! "Fall in love is easy, but found someone who loves you back is hard" so, if you already make them yours you have been success in your life. firstly, you feel like you owned the world, everyone just rent to live on Earth while you cuddle each other. this is the example what you're gonna do "Logan's", "Sarah's", "Gmr's", "tft Logan :)".  Slowly you left your society. you forget your friends. Day after day passed, your 12th months anniversary comes and she/he doesn't say anything, they often texting or calling you. they unfriend you in Facebook, block your call, never reply your text, and said that they were busy. But you loved him/her very much, you did lesson number one and magically they text you again and apologize, they ask you to go dinner, gift a present and your relationship back to normal. week after week passed, she/he become a jerk once again and "The Speculation" make its comeback, you think that she/he may be cheating on you. You asks with all your heart, kindly, warmly, and she/he doesn't give you a sure answer.  And what should you do?

Lesson number 2: Don't Fall in Love, Rise with It

Third, Let's say your love already had a boy/girlfriend

You'll think it is impossible for you to love her/his. well, we never planed to like or love someone, that just happened like 'boof', even when you have beautiful classmate that is more beautiful than your lover, you might think that she prettier or more handsome. Love is weird. You're afraid to tell your best friends because they'll say that she/he have a boy/girlfriend and what make you scared is hearing your best friends make you realized that she/he can't be with you ever. Then, what can you do, you make yourself as secret admirer, watching everything they do, noted all she/he likes/dislikes, everything they do makes you smile, the small things become the big one. Tips for you in this situation is Don't stalk her/his SNS, you might hurt, believe me, I experience once. But, what if your best friends told you about that social media? then you have to believe your best friends. They don't want you to hurt yourself by loving someone whom doesn't love you back. And what should you do?

Lesson number 3: Back to Lesson Number one

it's a long post, isn't it? well, all of this is a true story. In my case it is. Love is the only one that make you happy and sad at once. Love has huge power to control yourself. Love has magic. Love could make No become Yes. Love is Patient's best friend, you can't live without both of it. Patient without love is bullshit, Love without patient is a lust.

So, tell me what is love?